hello and goodbye

[fadedtree]

It was great realizing there are groups of people with sympathy. Unfortunately life has happened and I'm losing everything i spent all this time learning (ironically to escape poverty). I have 2 2x2.5 tents, i have various books on growing and i have some seeds I'm looking to sell as well as two hlg lights. I'm not looking for much because it won't help me much anyways I'm just trying to get rid of it and not let my ex girl keep it all. If i fall they won't eat from my spoils. Love y'all. Keep it real and hmu for cheap gear. PEACE

 

[Gweedo's Growroom]

Dam sorry to hear bro

 

[jpockets420]

Damn that sucks man. Stay positive. Your time to grow will come again. Life always comes first. ☮

 

[Meatman]

Keep your head up I had to quit when I got divorced years ago and came back stronger than ever…sending good vibes your way my friend

 

[Meatman]

Don’t go to far either this community is so full of knowledge and are willing to help anyone out if you need anything or just to talk I’m sure any of us are willing to help if we can that’s just how we work

 

[HydroRed]

Hopefully you can get back into a position you are comfortable to be in sooner than later. As mentioned, reach out if there's anything we can help with.

 

[Blizzard]

Ill take the playstation.

 

[Amos Otis]

 

[Frosty78]

poor bugger

 

[fadedtree]

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Believe me the thought crossed my mind... a few times.
I won't go into details but we're trying to work things out and for now the boat is afloat and I have a tent running. Also held on to my herijuanas and my pack of b. Cookies chem cause it pissed me off that I never got to see the flowers. Even got some work helping out a friend with his business, it ain't much but it beats working at walmart until I go postal.
Anyways pointless update but I thought I'd put it up here. Had some serious moments of weakness but it is what it is. Just wanted to say thanks for the encouraging words from everyone and that I'm doing good.

PS: the PS4 was broken during an argument as is tradition

 

[InfiniteIndo]

Glad to hear it hopefully things continue to get better for you

 

[Amos Otis]

Believe me the thought crossed my mind... a few times.

I wouldn't believe anyone that's ever been involved in a committed relationship if they said they've never fantasized about various ways of inflicting pain of some sort on the other, whether physical or mental, whether male, female or any of the other sexes - I've lost count. That said, most folks thankfully don't act on those thoughts, and I don't encourage anyone to.

I was just using the moment to take a swipe at that POS that the Dodgers still owe around 70 million $$ to.

PS: the PS4 was broken during an argument as is tradition

I found that doors and coffee tables were less expensive to replace, but replacing the inspiration for broken things an even better solution. Good luck, bro.

 

[OldG]

I wouldn't believe anyone that's ever been involved in a committed relationship if they said they've never fantasized about various ways of inflicting pain of some sort on the other, whether physical or mental, whether male, female or any of the other sexes - I've lost count. That said, most folks thankfully don't act on those thoughts, and I don't encourage anyone to.

I was just using the moment to take a swipe at that POS that the Dodgers still owe around 70 million $$ to.


I found that doors and coffee tables were less expensive to replace, but replacing the inspiration for broken things an even better solution. Good luck, bro.

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After the fact...all you can do is move on.

And Amos is right...my first wife is the mom of my 33 and 30 year old...i tried to pretend i was over it...but the truth be told i still hate that bitch.

Forever.

What made me better was succeeding in life. Fuck her.

And every time i see her now...her face looks like she has a whole lemon in her maw...SUCK IT BITCH.

So yeah....vengeance by living harmoniously and ignoring their very existence...but it takes time.

 

[JL2G]

After the fact...all you can do is move on.

And Amos is right...my first wife is the mom of my 33 and 30 year old...i tried to pretend i was over it...but the truth be told i still hate that bitch.

Forever.

What made me better was succeeding in life. Fuck her.

And every time i see her now...her face looks like she has a whole lemon in her maw...SUCK IT BITCH.

So yeah....vengeance by living harmoniously and ignoring their very existence...but it takes time.

Same boat my friend, only mines 13. Lol
You helped me to realize some of those things as well. She can just keep on keeping on, knowing she'll never get to suck it. Lmfao

 

[Ramjet159]

I’m not gonna preach because we all know it but all in all it’s about not impacting on the children when marriages or relationships turn bad . I’ve seen too many toxic relationships that should’ve ended sooner or kids caught in the crossfire .
You only get one childhood . No one should have the right to destroy it .

 

[18B]

Yep exactly...get on with it.
I got divorced...lost most everything...boats trucks house etc... and once I was free from the demon...she got an apartment...I got the kids, a farm, and we have not heard from her in years...I was so done with her bullshit and made it so fuckin clear...I don't think she will ever be back.
My kids and I are just fine...they seriously want for nothing, but do not always get what they want.
That is them. The first is riding one of my horses, and the second is riding her PumpHill Dartmoor that she trained.

I now have a rule for all women! You can stay one night, but then you gotta go back to where ya came from until next week.
This would never be if we kept the demon among us.

 

[Amos Otis]

To be fair, there is probably the same % of males and females that are awesome, and the same % who are miserable human beings that eventually make everyone around them miserable. I can't imagine how miserable it would be to be in the second group.

 

[Ramjet159]

To be fair, there is probably the same % of males and females that are awesome, and the same % who are miserable human beings that eventually make everyone around them miserable. I can't imagine how miserable it would be to be in the second group.

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Yeah I agree . I have empathy to a degree for the miserables who have had a genuine shit run in life but those that are just plain sad asses through poor choices or constant negativity but make no effort to make changes to perhaps turn the corner is another matter .
Then you get the whiner no matter what’s happening in life . Must be in the gene pool ?

 

[CovikLaflaire]

Look at the bright side. If nothing you havent been busted for growing like me. Hoes go and come around. After beeing busted the PARANOIA is constant..

 

[fadedtree]

I've never worried too much about being locked down, most my life I didn't know where I was gonna get my next meal and with that in mind risks are often taken without thought. but Im not there right now so it's whatever. Sucks you had to sit down though b, shits rough sometimes.

Edit: by the way I know everyone says this but if you do have to sit, read books.